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Ashlee Gadd's avatar

Krista I hope you never ever ever stop writing.

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Thank you, Ashlee. I know you understand how that creeping voice of doubt can come in, so I really appreciate your encouragement to keep going.

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Rebecca Marie's avatar

Came here to say this. Seriously, you have a gift.

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Thank you so much, Bec!

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Katie Blackburn's avatar

"The writer is doing her best to examine her own consciousness. She is undressing her mind. She is trying not to flinch." Well that line stopped me in my tracks. Bravo, bravo, bravo.

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Thank you, Katie. ❤️

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Amy Grass's avatar

Beautiful, friend. You make *this place* beautiful. I really really mean it. ♥️

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Thanks, Amy. ♥️

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Annelise Roberts's avatar

“And where is mine?” hit me in the gut. I think I’m still asking that question. I have this visceral memory of a moment several years ago, sitting on my step in the kitchen, and it was as if I was sitting beside my little girl self, gently explaining that those people weren’t ever coming, but I wouldn’t go away. The grief is overwhelming.

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Shannon Guerra's avatar

This struck me, too. 🔥 Asking this question reveals so much, and not all of us think to even consider it.

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

I'm glad that's sticking with you, Shannon! Thank you for reading.

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Totally. I remember reading a piece of yours that recalls that very moment on the kitchen step, and I remember resonating with that *deeply*. I know you and I probably share some very big commonalities in our histories. The grief really is overwhelming and learning that it doesn't go away—at least never fully—can be SO hard to accept. *And* showing up for ourselves is changing my life rn. Thanks for reading, Annelise, and for sharing in this with me. ♥️

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molly flinkman's avatar

Okay, Krista. Wow. I'm speechless. <3

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Thank you Molly, for taking the time to read and share this with me. 🩷

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Bre Marie Strobel's avatar

I have tears in my eyes, Krista. Hope to catch up with you soon. Praying 🫶🏻🫂

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Thank you, Bre. Same. <3

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Kym VdP's avatar

Wow the way you pieced this together is amazing 💛

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Thank you Kym! I love a good braided essay, and it was fun for me to mix in some different forms :)

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Alyssa Silvester's avatar

Stunning. Thank you for writing, friend. I’ll come back to this one.

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Thank you so much, Alyssa!

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Megan Hogg's avatar

This is gorgeous, Krista. Much of it resonated deeply with me. So many layers here I need to read it again!!!

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Thank you for reading, Megan! I'm so glad that it resonated with you. It's always the best gift to hear that.

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Allie King's avatar

Krista, this piece is stunning in so many ways. Just gorgeous. Thank you for your bravery in writing and sharing.♥️

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Thank you, Allie, for reading and for this encouragement. So, so kind.

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Stacy Bronec's avatar

This is beautiful, Krista. I’m so glad you pressed publish.

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Thanks, Stacy. Maybe the pieces we're doubting most are the ones that need to go out into the world the most? Just a theory I'm working on. :)

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Stacy Bronec's avatar

I think you're right.

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Natalie Ward's avatar

This post is absolutely fantastic.

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Thank you, Natalie!

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Shannon Williams's avatar

Whoosh. Will I be reading this again? (And again?) Yes. You just disrupted my afternoon in the best of ways.

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Whew, thank you Shannon. "Disrupted" feels like the perfect word tbh. ♥️

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Karen Miller's avatar

I'm feeling the same. Everything about this assaulted me in the very best way. Grateful for these words.

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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Karen, thank you so much! "Assaulted me in the very best way"—such an apt way of putting it, and a huge compliment. Thanks for reading. :)

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